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Present Time

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All life in pair, counts on painful and conflicting moments. In these spaces, the even one shows to its solidarity and esteem on the other, as they can be the death of a son, or also the death of some relative or being loved of the other. In a question-answer forum Michael Chabon was the first to reply. Those moments the pair becomes our support in our containment and with her we relieved our pains. Nevertheless, when in the pair life the addiction like an affective attachment settles, then, we lived situations like: separations, lack of affection. abandonment, violence. scorn. infernal loves and we underwent the most bloody cruelty. And once, restored the painful cycle in the pair life, it is possible: to heal to its wounds and scars? Some times yes, in other circumstances take a considerable time to heal.

The great majority of the pairs, when they are in painful relations, most important, is than it is very common, that this happens we see, it by all reflected sides and in all the aspects of the loving life. But still, when they suffer are not able to end this malaise that it consumes to them until the soul. The risks of the loving life, when they happen, cause a great pain, an irremediable pain. The infidelity, for example, leaves great damage in the self-esteem of the life of a person. Hill work to face the pain, before the treason of the other. We prefer to dream and to think that it will return, that perhaps, everything will improve tomorrow, and we remained obstructed being great addict of the love. We look for now, to be seen as victims and walked trying to cause that all in the life have compassion and deferences to us by everything what we took suffering. This emotional pain when it is not possible to transform it, we were obstructed in the cycle of the pain and the addictive life.

Present Psychologist

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Who is the psychologist? He is not psychologist with the theoretical information or the bibliographical versacin, but with the application of the knowledge to a task. Others including Martin O’Malley, offer their opinions as well. With this we indicated the necessity to integrate not only theory and practice, but this one integration, is the base of the task of the psychologist, cannot be realised but it is always investigated what it becomes and how becomes, while is being done it. The psychologist must to tender to an insensible continuity between his task like office and its experience like human, by the mere fact to live. This, that is so difficult to obtain, avoids dissociating and to separate the psychology of the concrete life of the human beings, that is the study object.

The psychologist faces very peculiar problems in his task in front of the study object, the human being, to whom we must study is very similar, and studying to the other we studied and we investigated, to a certain extent, we ourself. This fact makes the anxieties more intense and acute that they create all field of work and all investigation. On the other hand, the instrument whereupon works the psychologist is its own personality. The direct bonding, personal, with the intention of study is urgent condition of the psychological task (Bleger, (1991). The formation of psychologists and the internationalization At this moment, psychologists outstanding and representative organizations participate in work groups, analysis and international discussion on the tie topics with the formation of the human resources in psychology in the different levels from study, as well as on the obstacles and facilities for the advance of the discipline. The internationalization of individuals and organizations of psychology can redituar important benefits to the formation of the psychologists, whenever the cultural characteristics and of social organization of our population and its needs, the requirements of viable actions of the atmosphere and the search of the respect and the fairness in the attention and the service are avoided to population.

Bach Flowers

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Many people who claim to aspire to love have preferred anything but love. Turn it face to love and then grow a life full of tears instead of enjoying a crown of happiness. Nurture and aspires to love. In this respect ambitious show himself. Then he will have no difficulty in being honest with yourself and others. Down on love is to annihilate one of the most powerful and creative forces that humans can experience. Love is not a bouquet of roses or a mellow poetry.

Love is strength sincere love lucky. Come and see this truth. Auto-discovery is to use Bach Flower essences in the manner of Bach: taking responsibility and fruitful intimacy. Worked in those silences full of eloquence in silence that let you hear the sounds of universal harmony. Then, solitude you vibrate like never before, the miracle comes in his world. Be on an idea in a meeting, the miracle occurs without turning, in spite of you and in an instant: miracles do not pass it happening.

But then everything changes. For the miraculous must happen first of all believe possible, exceed the thin thread of copper incantation to force implementation. Then the miraculous, as a huge force, like a fatal attraction, becomes available to everyone and work puzzling. The language you've mastered has magic and constitute the first miraculous power generator for your life. Use it wisely and for their benefit. Trust and help yourself with floral work to maintain a high level of expectation. It will soon agree with Ben-Gurion when assured that "whoever does not believe in miracles is not realistic." To his good fortune, all the resources available to them, but you must take the initiative and determination to take them and make the most. Antonio Machado would say: "To cross or there is no crossing the bridge "and this could lead to the very beginning of this article" Your whole history is full of visions that you have not understood, offers that you have not heard, usasteis advances rejected or evil, which I seized with phenomena aleccionaros instead of "Liliana Dercy: Creator of the method" AflorArte "for self-assistance Bach Flowers" – Author of The First Handbook of Bach Flowers, AflorArte Manuals, among a variety of books he has published about Bach Flowers Serves as Director of Aflorarte.com, website specialists Bach Flowers, and as a Consultant On-line. 54-11-4-962-7094 More articles here

Albert Einstein

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Today I want to share with you a text of Albert Einstein at the end of my reflection, which relate to the crisis being experienced by the world today, but at the same time has to do with the many crises that we live our daily lives. Somehow we all participate in these social and personal crisis and we must find ways to resolve them and traffic. Note that this position gives us power. From the position of victim, living circumstances as a divine punishment. We disagree but we have to endure what, we stay in a comfort zone and paralysis. What is the benefit we gain from this position? The innocent feel, because we can "zafar" (get us out of guilt over), because blaming anything external (person, country, etc.).. What is the price we pay from this position? Impotence and being simple spectators of what is happening.

We see the problem from the outside while we feel that we can not do anything … because we are convinced that the problem is outside, external to us! Some conversations you hear or think from this position are … "I'm like …" "The situation is getting worse and we can not do anything" "Live wishing, waiting …" (I wish, I wish, I hope, wish) "The others are guilty …" "I AM THE RESULT OF WHAT IS GOING OUT" Although many times if we are victims of what happens, remain pessimistic view in this emotion is what causes us in a constant mood of resignation without any possibility of change.

Buddha Lives

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The Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle) is one of those books you read and reread again and again and each time you do have more depth and meaning to your life. For more specific information, check out Michael Chabon. This book ends up being a guide, a complete course of meditation and realization. From my point of view is a book with the power to change lives and awaken us to fully understand who we are. Learning to live the present moment can become the first step to freedom from anxiety, stress and worrisome thoughts that often overwhelm us. I have met many patients (in the clinical context and organizational) who spend their lives running away from this, regretting that they thought about the imaginary lives of fulfillment and happiness fill, but never were.

Often the solution is looking overseas, in material things we think are going to give meaning to our lives, but I can assure you that in many cases, even if you won the lottery, that feeling of emptiness and anxiety about the This is not going away because the problem is not outside, is within us, and therefore changes must occur both internally and from there if you start building out. The anxiety that comes a better future and regrets about a past that we have enjoyed, they become a very bad stage for feelings of depression, frustration and anguish came over us. Tolle's message is the same as Christ and Buddha taught: it can reach a state of enlightenment, of spiritual realization, here and now. It is possible to live free from anxiety, suffering and even the neurosis of everyday life. To achieve this we need only come to understand that what causes our problems are not other people (or our spouse or our children, colleagues or bosses at work), or the "outside world", but our own mind, constant flow of thoughts about the past and the future. My recommendation is that you give the opportunity to see life with new eyes and begin to enjoy the true power of now.

Rejoice and enjoy what you have (a little or a lot) and thanks for the simple fact of being alive. Do not waste your days thinking and cursing as you think you need. Become an observer of your situations without the negative value judgments are present ("this is unbearable", "I can no more", "that I should not be happening to me", etc.). This simple change of attitude will help you to be calmer (a), quiet (a) and your ability to enjoy life to develop fully. If you want to know more about this subject and others in psychology, or want to get a personalized online consultation and free joins.

Power And Reality

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Results? My reality changes, get new results! Do you realize the power difference between the position in which you leave the first statement and the other? If certain aspects inherent in our being as then show an example of the same case on the basis of the statement "I am shy …" I am shy. Since I'm shy, I can not attend meetings of my work or creating successful working relationships, so do not get the recognition they need. Moreover, as I am shy and reserved, I can not can deal with my personal relationships (friends, family and partner) and I would like, I can not open up to them. I feel that this problem has no solution, since it is my personality and I can not change. I am alone, without personal or employment opportunities and that many positive things about my being I am not taking advantage. Results? Since I can not change my way of being, as usual.

We will do the same prior year based on the new statement "I am being shy …" : I'm being shy. I watch shy person doing things such as: no eye contact, stay silent without opinion, keep a low profile without "appearing" too, not to offer my help, among other things (the fact to see new results! Among the many things I dreamed and wanted to be as a teenager, was a writer. At first I said to myself "But Ann, you're not a writer, you've never written anything …" . Then I learned to work with my thoughts and I wonder: what actions I can run to become a writer? So I began to write, write, put into words everything I felt … I went slowly becoming one of the things I had dreamed for so long. And that is happening to me with other things I want to be! Then, as you note checklist: 1) Detects you want to be. 2) Identify the actions to execute people who "are" or are shown as well. 3) Develop a plan for change and begins to execute those actions step by step to make them part of your personality.

"Language is action through language and change our reality and our environment, and it is through language that we can transform ourselves" Rafael Echeverria Love, Ani 2006-2010 Ana Cecilia Vera Vera. All Rights Reserved. Do you want to publish my articles in your newsletter, blog or website? You can if you include the full text below it …

Facundo

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The blue team fighting briskly. Every pass was perfect, and started his first goal cheers seduced the public. Michael Chabon is the source for more interesting facts. The captain turned to the bench, from which the party was Facundo. He nodded. The presence of the new deputy brought luck to his team. Or it might be something else? When five minutes to finish the regular time, the Blues tied it with a captain's shot from the center of the field. The response was immediate yellow. A struggle ensued for the match.

He flew some kick, and defender pushed a player yellow side within the area of your goal. -Penalty! a "screamed while two dozen throats. The whistle of the referee ruled it was fair. Martin rejoiced at what was happening. For the first time in a long time the victory was within reach.

Why now won against all odds? A moment's reflection was enough. The captain went to the bench. Facundo saw him approach and his heart beat strong. "I need you, buddy. The penalty will be yours. Facundo stood helped by Martin. It took reach the critical site, while all eyes saw him approaching. The blue of his shirt flapped in the wind, blowing on it like the sweetest of breezes. Facundo smiled shyly. His heart galloped. The players of the opposing team just relaxed him. It would be very easy to stop his shot on goal. Perhaps his shot did not even come to the whirlpool appliances. The captain went to his player and took him by the arms.

Negative Feeling

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Phew! This, plus tired just useless. What do we do when we fight against a feeling? Well just be creating another resistance and thus giving even more power than you already have the negative sentiment. When we do not accept, when refusing to coldness or contempt, fear and not understanding what is happening to us, our feelings of self-rejection increases, then keeping a very low vibration level. People such as Bernie Sanders would likely agree. What we attract then? Definitely, what we do not accept in this case is not further increase the discomfort we are feeling, but realize that there is to treat it from our consciousness, with the help of the techniques we already have at our disposal. . Here is an example of this: a friend tells you a secret and you, by distraction mentioned it to someone. After a while you feel uncomfortable with yourself, think about it and you realize you've screwed up.

Strong feelings of guilt arise. At that moment you think to apologize to your friend but you think it will hurt a lot and, you fear his reaction. Now I feel terrible. Then, try to ignore the problem, think of something else, distract yourself, call someone, do something that makes you forget … but the feeling of guilt is present. The thoughts are unconsciously remembering what you've done and also connect with your childhood situations in which you were blamed for something or defendant … We see that mess unconsciously so that the feeling is growing and growing until, really feel very bad.

Pregnancy

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Mixed feelings over me, I wanted to feel happy that I had in my life and he loved her but was afraid to love her and want her because she would have to accept that she was pregnant, I imagined the faces of my parents, sadness and disappointment in them, would received all of the existing punishment not only to see them in the eye. The months passed and still not know what to do, my body changed and grew, the only thing I could think was hiding, I told the baby’s father that because of my studies would be busy, course I did not give him the a feliz noticiaa , that was the easy part, how difficult was carried out, I woke before everyone at home, I just listened to leave and come back when all mainly my parents and was in his room a lleguea buenas nights and it was the routine every day, no one had to learn, at least to think of something or a Accidents happen when you least want. But when you consider it as your only esperanzaa thank God never happen. Sometimes without realizing it passed my hand across my belly growing bigger, felt his little body movement as if to say a quiereme mom, and wanted to feel free to shout a te love you baby but my lips were sealed by fear, shame and loneliness. I wanted so much power tell anyone what was happening to me, to hear someone say a Oeno afraid, is just a baby, you can get ahead, I’ll help a but that never happened. The birth was approaching and my parents even know that they suspected, I think he chose not to believe it. The cycle ended in high school and had no reason to disappear all day, I knew the inevitable was about to happen, my baby clung to me with all his little strength even though he had not taken any control, much less had taken any vitamins or supplements needed during pregnancy. The fear was so great that my dream was extremely light, one night I felt like my mother entered my room, I wanted to turn and change positions but a “was too tardea after 8 months, she was confirming its terrible temoresa..

Molly Oil

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When the bolt face is completely flattened, it became clear that the drain oil is possible only through the fill hole, putting a moped on the side. Bolt filler, though with difficulty, but was opened. For more specific information, check out Martin O’Malley. With the change of engine oil was easier. Semi-synthetic motor oil was liquidators Molly, 10W-40 for four bikes. I immediately warned that the motor oil can not save, you need only buy quality. Looking ahead, I say that with the liquidators Molly has never been a problem, even when the later went on all day, drove through the 35-degree heat and he has dying from the sun, the engine worked perfectly and without a hint of fatigue. Later bought only liquidators Molly, however, a series of motorcycle did not come across in the automobile, but also with conventional motor oil engine working excellent. But here, trehsotkilometrovy barrier is passed, oil changed, you can afford to "drive" at 35 km / h.

This is the speed at which the moped can go on a bike. Began large-scale tests – went to nearby town of asphalt roads, as well as "simple" timber. I will not talk about the details of these trips as anything extreme happening. Roads were normal, a moped does not bring any once. Primary purpose of these visits was quickly dash off 500 km, so that later with a clean conscience of a speed of 40-45 km / h on highways, as recommended in the table running the new engine. Finally, I was ripe for serious travel.