Pheromones, romanticism and illusion tarnished all our realities. It is inevitable, to live this episode is crucial and paramount. Novelty we catch, but when you get in real life, each conduct, every attitude and every decision of my partner, are encrypted in your life experience. As well as my father treats his wife, so surely I will be treated with the passage of time. But no, we believe that our couple ever his father will never what with us, and what they believe with different modalities, but yes, suddenly I feel the abandonment, abuse and indifference. But of course, abruptly my partner demand me attitudes and behaviors very similar to his mother.
It is not intentional, it is generational. So all the women in his life, subject or reclamonas, have behaved or arrogant, or indifferent. In the same way I’m going to ask my partner to behave with that model of masculinity and manhood that I’ve learned. I require to be treated as the man who taught me as the relations between men and women, were yes I was the Princess I want to continue to be that, is my identity. But what happens when a Princess enrolled in a relationship with a man who lived that women have to stay calladitas and it is he who makes all the decisions. The total catastrophe. And Yes is in truth, because nobody can give account which is obeying roles and circumstances of what lived. But maybe, that which is lived is the circumstance of our parents but not our life today, with this couple in particular and in the here and the now. What is the male or female model I have learned? Does my partner have to fit that mold? Do if I like the role I have learned and which not? What those considerations that are functional to me or not in this relationship in the here and the now? In my workshops and courses I always emphasize the importance of listening to the grandmothers and mothers, but think about it.